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'I love watching my girl sleep with women but now she wants to watch me with men'

One Daily Star reader has asked for advice from our agony aunt Jane O'Gorman after confessing to enjoying watching his girlfriend sleep with other women but now she wants him to go with a man

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One reader says he enjoys watching his girlfriend sleep with other women (stock)(Image: Getty Images)

I love watching my girl make love to other women. Is that kinky?

She finds willing partners on dating apps.

Now shes saying that she wants to watch me with other men. Im not keen, but shes accusing me of being selfish and unfair. Surely, Im allowed to specify what I am and am not prepared to do.

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JANE SAYS: Every relationship is unique, and some people might find yours a little unconventional or extreme, but you and your girl have to respect each others feelings and limitations.

Ultimately, if you dont want to have sex with other men, then youre entitled to put your foot down and say no. Be true to yourself.

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One reader says he enjoys watching his girlfriend sleep with other women (stock)(Image: Getty Images)

'Barks commands like a sergeant major'

Im frustrated with my boyfriend. He never makes love to me with any passion.

He doesnt like kissing or cuddling and barks out his commands and requests like a sergeant major.

And sometimes hes rough and brusque and I get the impression I annoy him and he secretly loathes me. Is he keen to get it over and done with?

A close friend wonders if he might be confused about his true sexuality.

How can I ask him without insulting the man?

JANE SAYS: Were all individuals and have our own unique preferences and styles.

If your guy likes his sex in a certain way and isnt prepared

to change or compromise for you, then hes clearly not your forever lover.

There is no excuse for rough or brusque behaviour if its not consensual. I fear he crosses a line every time hes anything less than respectful.

Dont waste any more time on someone who isnt making you feel good.

If youre not feeling the love then you need to end this relationship and move on.

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