Is he cheating?
My partner (M50) has been acting weird towards me (F37) for a while. Sex hasnt been as frequent. He goes between being lovely to acting like he doesnt want me around and snapping with me.
A couple of weeks ago I found viagra in a suitcase he uses when we travel or he goes away for work trips. There was only 1 left in the pack of 8. I questioned him on this and he blew up claiming he uses them for me when he has had a few drinks and cant preform. I cannot think of one occasion when he has been drunk where he could have taken them and if he did it didnt work!
I chose to rug sweep thinking maybe he was telling the truth or I was mistaken. Last week he was being super off with me didnt want me around. He told me Thursday night he was having an early night and said he would speak to me the next day. When I woke to message him in the morning he had been online at 3.13am although he had told me he was sleeping by 10pm. When I asked if he slept well he said he went straight to sleep after he said goodnight.
I went to his house the next morning and all of my possessions were hidden in the spare room with the door closed. Shoes, clothes everything. He said he was tidying my mess and not to over think. I then seen 2 bottles of wine, a bottle of Prosecco (which he doesnt drink) and several beers in his bin. Its making me question is he cheating? I never mentioned the drinks I did ask again if he slept well or if he had been up late and he was adamant he went straight to sleep.
Has he been taking the viagra for someone else? Hiding my belongings when someone else is coming over to stay up drinking with him all night??
I will add he has previous for EA/possible kiss/seeking validation which I discovered by snooping a few months back and he promised he would never hurt me this way again. Im so confused
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