This is a replacement for #57795. I'm opening a new PR as I had to revert #57835 to get the arch specific files (which run part of OpenSSL's build) to work.

• 4568a35 test: prepare test-crypto-rsa-dsa for newer OpenSSL4568a35077a test: prepare test-crypto-rsa-dsa for newer OpenSSL is needed to pass tests -- the test was assuming OpenSSL 3.0 behaviour which has changed. I left both code paths in this commit so that tests will pass on it (and will pass on the later commit once OpenSSL 3.5 is introduced).
• 155fd5b build,deps,tools: update to OpenSSL 3.5 -- this is the main update, including fixing up the perl scripts and Makefiles in deps/openssl/config for the new files in OpenSSL 3.5. I'm not wholly happy with the amount of places that need to be updated to add each newly introduced file but that's a possible later improvement (I'm not that familiar with Perl).

Note that this PR doesn't do the actual update -- I'm intending for that to be done via the updater workflow once this lands (otherwise this PR will have far too many changed files to be reviewable).

cc @nodejs/crypto

Running the automation to test: https://github.com/nodejs/node/actions/runs/14779389322/job/41494768590
Which is opening #58097